Let one thing go to gain another

You cannot hold onto everything. That would be nice, but you can’t. And in fact, even if you can hold onto everything you want, it will be less meaningful as you lift the constraints that life put on us. Constraints make us choose things we want to hold onto more wisely and carefully.

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Feedback as a blessing.

Lately, I’ve had some interesting experiences with feedback, learning about being on the delivering end and then on the receiving end.

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Keys to happy relationships

  1. Lower your expectations. Rather, be the person you want in your life first.
  2. You get what you put in. Actively invest in the relationships you want to build, grow, and maintain.
  3. You won’t get along with everyone and that’s fine. But, don’t be haste to judge. Problem may be you, or may just be the circumstances.
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All you sure it's all you?

As I was writing down some lessons learned in the past year, I felt overwhelming gratitude towards a certain group of people that taught me these invaluable lessons.

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Listen to yourself

Instead of blindly chasing what others are doing that seem “cool” and feeling anxious to never miss out on anything, take the time to be alone.

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No Entitlement

This morning, I caught myself getting salty over something that I should be grateful for in reality.

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Just get started.

Scratch it. Scratch everything I said in the preface. (I’ll leave it there to remind me of the learning.)

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